Many of the resist of the step, your Angehö aims;to bring the engine into the nursing home. An expert says: „The love of a parent has nothing to do with care to tun“. An Interview
Home or not home? The feeder can the relationship to the Angehömembered relieve
Ulrike Döring is Chairman of the Evangelical technical and vocational Association für care and health, as well as a member of the German nursing Council. We have consulted them, as pflegebedürftige Angehörige best kö be supplied;can.
Woman Döring, care consume often strongly to the own Kräshops.
That’s true. Today we are going to always älter, therefore, it may happen that the 90-jäold parents from their 70-jäold children be maintained. Many of us are stuck of the way so easily, überfordert, übermü-
det and üprocessed.
What advice do you Angehöengine then?
The most Important thing is that all are honest with each other. The Pflegebedü has;rftige not previously own, the children’s decisions exonerating für met this case, should all discuss together. First point of contact are the advice of the health insurance funds, the municipalities or the voluntary welfare agencies.
But that doesn’t help against the bad Gefühl, you würde leave someone in the lurch …
No, natüof course not. But who comes to its borders, stäfully fü off and müde ;hlt, something must ächange. From my point of view, love has to do with the parents nothing to do with whether I care or not. On the contrary, If the children are in the care of yourself to the limits of their KräRTD advised, the relationship to the parents.
Can save the nursing home, the relationship again?
Determined not always. But I have often experienced, that the relationship between children and parents was suddenly better. The care takes a lot of time, what the room für schöa hours less. Außerdem: Just because you consult lässt, doesn’t have to be a home for the way out.
But?
Many people are not aware of the offers, the caring Angehörige relieve köcan. Sometimes a short time, enough care, so that the Angehösquad of time force schö can make and new;pft.
If it is not still?
The decision of when a home of last resort, can slimming a nobody. Usually the health of the Affected plays a role. For example, müexclude patients with dementia often are supervised around the clock. The köcan Angehöolds often can’t afford.
How can one address the issue of home is best?
With a Gespräch is not done, this is a process. Natüof course is a move in a care facility is aware that own life is limited. But actually it is not a question of how long, but how one spends the time. Many remember in the home: I have a very different Lebensqualität.
What facilitated the move?
It’s worth it, the way long to prepare. Who in peace and üconsiderate a home can choose, the right fit can move in with their heads held high.
The nursing situation in the last few years has verächanged?
It heißt always, the care was a Problem of the modern era. But that is not true. Those who really Pflege benöadjusted, could früoften not sufficient to be cared for because no one had time.
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